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He isnt ready for a relationship - we have been doing this off and on stuff for 7 years and were engaged. We have a 6 year old. He called off the relationship because he felt "controlled" by the fact I didnt want him hanging out with friends who encourage drug use. We're totally incompatible. So he tells me he doesnt think he should change but I should. And he made it clear he wants his freedom to do what he wants, when he wants, without being questioned... because being questioned is being controlled in his mind. But he gets very jealous at the thought of me being with another guy... why? If he doesnt want me to be with someone else then why is he so animate about not maturing and being a family?

Then I decide to quit communicating with him and I'll get a text out of the blue saying "So are we just not going to talk anymore?" or "Why arent you talking?" He is so wrapped up with his single life and going out with friends, why does he even care if we arent talking? To get laid?